Are you a 20-something woman who attends/has attended a liberal university? Are your friends mostly people who consider themselves to have a social conscience; the kind of people who got involved with the "Occupy Wall Street" movement? Did you vote for Obama to "prove that you're not racist"?
If you answered yes to the above questions, you are at serious risk of becoming a coalburner. No doubt you were taught by your friends/the media/the university environment that diversity is a wonderful thing and that to reject the advances of a Black man is an incredibly racist and hateful thing to do. You may even feel that you are obliged to date any nigger who ax's you fo' sum digits.
Here is what you need to know about that nigger who has been pestering you to go out with him: he hates you. - He doesn't want to date you because he finds you attractive; he wants to use you to boost his social credibility amongst the other niggers in his troop. Niggers love to be able to brag that they "gots me a White wimmenz", but the reality is that they don't care about you one bit. A White woman is equivalent to a gold chain or a set of 22" rims, as far as niggers are concerned. It is all about the "Looks at muh" factor.
Niggers hate White women. Need proof? OK:
Does he beat you? - It's because he hates you.
Does he make you drive him everywhere and have you pay for everything? - It's because he hates you.
Does he treat your family disrespectfully? - It's because he hates you.
Does he call you "bitch" or "ho" in front of his friends? - It's because he hates you.
Does he treat you in a way that you would not tolerate from a White man? - It's because he hates you.
The reason why so many White women end up in hospital/a grave after getting involved with niggers is simple: niggers hate White women.