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Odin88
06-30-2008, 06:08 PM
Everyone has their own reasons for coming to sites like this. I come here because I love my kids. My daughter Kailey is beautiful. Honestly- she is going to be a heartbreaker. She just turned 11 and she is already becoming a young woman. I am having trouble dealing with the fact that soon I am going to be the father of a beautiful teenage girl. The girl is gorgeous- Tall, slender with electric blue eyes and auburn hair.... I am totally fucked! I survived 8 years in a maximum seciurity prison surrounded by murderers, child molestors, rapists and psychopaths.... But I have no idea how to confront a teenage little girl!

How the fuck do you protect a beautiful little white girl amidst thousands of niggers? For once, Odin is at a loss......She is rapidly becoming a woman and I have no idea how to be her father. Honeslty guys- she is beautiful and when she becomes a woman, I am totally fucked! I have never deallt with a situation like this and I am utterly panicked. She is way too mature for her age and I have no idea how to be her father!!

She hugged me last night and god help me, she is "developing" as a woman! She is no longer my "baby girl"! You guys who are daddies- what the fuck I am supposed to do? This is all new to me, and I have no idea how to be the father of teenager! I love her so much and I feel so guilty for not being there for her. She grew up behind my back!

She is only 11, but she is developing so quickly.... I am sorry if this thread seems odd- but I have no clue as to how to be a good father to a young woman. I don't want to fuck this up and none of my crazy fucking skinhead friends have any advice. How should I proceed? My son Ian is only 9 months old, so I have plenty of time to fuck his life up....but my little girl is rapidly becoming a woman, and I have no fucking idea how to proceed!

Gallóglaigh
06-30-2008, 06:24 PM
You start by educating her about the dangers of the Urban Ape.

But I doubt i need to mention that to you.


I'd advise any parents to get their kinds - especially girls - into martial arts classes at the earliest possible age.

lilywhitelady
06-30-2008, 09:23 PM
First let me commend you on being such a good father. You must preach to her daily about the dangers of these vile evil beast. Talk to her about how filthy they are and how 8 out of 10 has or has been treated for an s.t.d. and that includes HIV/AIDS
And to really get her to listen to you, you MUST threaten to disown her if she ever fools with niggers.
All teenage girls should have a father like you.:rock-cheers

The Man
07-02-2008, 05:10 AM
Odin, you're going to do fine because you do care, you do worry to the point of panic and also because you are looking for help.

The best thing I can offer you is get and maintain a strong level of communication with her... and that's harder than it sounds. You've got to talk to her everyday and listen to her intensely. You're going to have to endure a lot of girl talk but it is important to her and this will be how you reach her and keep her attention because she'll know that she has a father that cares about what's going on in her world...no matter how boring it may seem to a man.
If she has your attention then you will have hers. I had to do this with my nieces but now I'm glad I did. I had to step up and take the place of their dad because he was unable to take care of them so I had to learn quick how to get thru to them.

You're going to have to let go of the years you weren't there and quit slapping yourself over it and live in today. Start now. It will make it easier on you AND your kids.

snowflake
07-02-2008, 05:19 AM
I do not have a daughter but I do have a son that is 21. Communication is the best advice. If a teen can trust you and can talk to you, that is very important.
They will not hide things from you, but remember to not be to strict because they will rebel and that is the worst. Tell her that she is beautiful and when she does something good, praise her for it. Make sure she knows how special she is to you.

Montag451
07-07-2008, 02:48 AM
Well, lucky for all us respondents to this thread, there is no right or wrong answer, because there is no answer at all. It's a crap shoot dude. Is she gonna be a good girl who always about her parents wishes and wants to do her best and make the most of her life? Will she rebel and do everything she knows will break your heart? Will there be any drugs harder than pot and beer? Are you close and will you always be that way? Can she tell you if she is serious about her boyfriend, or go to you with a heavy conscience about a drunken indiscretion?
The difference between my son at 11 and 13 was 180*. In that time he went from being an honor role student who made the Presidents List to being a total wigger. From the time he was 13 until he was 19 he was one heart ache after another. Nobody can hurt you like your wife and kids bro.
Now he's 21 and we are real close, and I thank God for him, but for six years it was not easy. It was the hardest shit I ever had to deal with, and there wasn't anything I could do to straighten him up. He could still be out there fucking up his life, but fortunately he's not. So whatever happens, be strong, if you have a God ask for his help, and hope for the best. And in these things I wish you the best.